Handling Car Accidents Between Friends

Imagine you’re a passenger in your best friend’s car – and she crashes into the car ahead of her. For many of our clients, this is more than imagination – it’s reality. Being injured in a car accident involving friends can be extremely uncomfortable for all parties involved. If you’ve been involved in a car accident like this, you’re probably asking yourself how you’re going to go about getting compensation for your medical bills, time off of work and pain and suffering from someone you are so close to.

The most uncomfortable situation is when you have to sue your friend or if permitted, a family member. As most passengers drive with their friends or families, it occurs more often than you think. Inattentiveness, driving too fast, distractions, or traffic violations are just some of the situations that can result in an accident. The driver is usually someone you have known for many years, you trust them, and do not want to involve them in this accident. You try to take care of it yourself, but mounting medical bills, loss of employment, injuries, and pain and suffering make it difficult for you to get back on your feet! An accident can truly change your life! You are in a very compromised situation. Your damages are no less serious just because the driver is close to you. If a stranger caused the accident, the harm is still the same. You just do not like the idea of suing a friend or family member in court. In a lot of cases, however, that is not necessary. The idea that you would collect personal funds from someone you love, just does not feel right. Here are some important things to know. 


Like everyone, your friends and family members pay premiums for automobile insurance. This protection usually will cover everyone for their negligence and pay damages caused by your friend or family member. Compensation does not come out of their pockets necessarily but rather may come from the insurance company. If you don’t pursue the matter, you can’t recover damages that the insurance company might be responsible for. The only one who wins, is the insurance company as it will not have to pay on the claim. Finally, you can limit the claim to the policy limits. That will protect their personal assets. 



The insurance adjuster who tries to resolve the claim is paid by the insurance company where insurance covers the against in most jurisdictions. It can request copies of medical bills and records. It will also provide an attorney if the case is litigated. Again there is no out of pocket expenses for your friends or family members. 


Nobody wants you to suffer without compensation. You simply want to return to your pre-accident status. Your friends and family members also want that. They don’t want you to spend a life in pain. They don’t want you to not be able to do the things you are used to. They also want you to provide for your family on every level. 

The suit is against the policy limits of the automobile insurance company.  It will not hurt them financially. It will ,however, assist you in recovering emotionally, physically, and financially.

Who’s Responsible?

Car Accident claims can be complicated – so talking to an attorney experienced in car accident law is important to answer this question specifically. However, there are certain general things you should know if you’ve been involved in a car accident involving a friend. As a general rule, if you have been injured in a car accident, you should pursue a legal claim against every party that is potentially responsible. In some circumstances, this may involve pursuing a claim against your friend. However, we are aware of the difficulty and strain this may put on your relationship – and always approach these situations with compassion and diplomacy.

After a car accident, you may be able to pursue a claim against the following parties:

Your friend

If your friend was irresponsible or careless (i.e. negligent) and was the cause of the car accident, they may be liable to you for damages.

The Other Driver

If the car accident was caused by another driver, you may be able to file a claim with their insurer

Manufacturer of the Vehicle

Occasionally, a defect in the design or manufacture of the vehicle is responsible

Don’t Wait to See a Doctor

Given the seriousness of many injuries that can occur after a car accident – it is important that you seek out qualified medical assistance as soon as practicably possible after the incident. Failing to do so is not only bad for your health – it can have an impact on your personal injury claim as well. If the car accident wasn’t your fault, you will naturally want to file a claim with the other driver’s insurance company. This process can be difficult because insurance companies are more interested in protecting their interests than yours. As a result, an insurance adjuster handling your case looks for any way to minimize the amount of money they have to pay to you. One age old tactic is to challenge the time frame between the incident and the medical treatment sought. As a result, time is of the essence.

You May Feel Guilty About Pursuing A Claim Against Your Friend, But You Shouldn’t

It’s completely understandable for victims of car accidents involving friends to want to protect one another and avoid causing financial harm. However, you need to remember that the vast majority of lawsuits seek compensation from an insurance company – not your friend directly. This means that, if you pursue a claim against your friend, your friend will not necessarily have to pay out-of-pocket. It essentially becomes a claim for compensation that you seek from your friend’s insurance company. It still might increase the overall costs of insurance of your friend, but it’s not the same as suing your friend directly. Your friend’s insurance company will be responsible for compensating you for the damages. Although it’s possible that their insurance rates will increase, this will likely happen anyways due to the property damage claim when your friend tries to get her car fixed, or other drivers and passengers pursue a claim.

It’s also important not to jump to conclusions. Even if you don’t feel your friend was responsible, sometimes insurance company adjusters will try to argue that they were responsible to deny or reduce the value of the claim. If you do not file a claim against the driver of the vehicle you were riding in, you might only receive a small portion of the amount you are entitled to if your friend is found to be responsible.

Lastly, remember that just because you pursue a claim against your friend doesn’t necessarily mean that your relationship needs to be affected. In most cases, people understand that insurance is there for a reason, and if they are truly your friend they won’t want to see you suffer without being compensated fairly.

Can My Friend and I Have The Same Lawyer Represent Us In Our Car Accident Claim?

The short answer is – it depends. While the rules governing, lawyers do permit joint representation in some circumstances, every case is vastly different. The key, however, is that you and your friend are advised about the issues joint representation can create and that you both make an informed decision to proceed – even with the knowledge of potential issues. There are some cases, however, where joint representation is not permissible even with the informed consent of both parties. This mainly occurs when each client’s positions are in direct conflict with each other to such an extent that a lawyer could not represent one without negatively impacting the other.

Given this, if you would like to explore the potential for joint representation, it is best to call us immediately to schedule a time to discuss the unique facts of your case.

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